2009年2月22日 星期日

《三個忠告》

一對新婚夫婦生活貧困,一天,丈夫對妻子說:
 “親愛的,我要去很遠的地方工作,直到我有修件給你一種舒適體面的生活才會回來。我只求你一件事,我不在的時候要對我忠誠,我麗會對你忠誠的。”

很多天之後,他被一個莊園錄用了。他要老闆答應他一個請求:
 “請允許我殺這裡想幹多久就幹多久,當我覺得應該離開時,您要放我走。我離開那天,您再把我賺的錢給我。”

雙方達成了協議。

年輕人在那裏整整工作了20年,中間沒有休假。

一天,他對老闆說:“我要回家了。”

老闆說:“我會照協議辦事的。不過我有個建議,要麼我給你錢,要麼我給你三條忠告,你好好想想再給我答覆。”

他相了兩天,然後找到老闆,說:“我想要那三條忠告。”

老闆提醒他說:“如果給了你忠告,我就不會給你錢了。”

他還是說:“我想要忠告。”

老闆對他說:
 “第一,永遠不要走捷經。便捷而陌生的道路可能會要了你的命。第二,永遠不要對可能是懷事的事情好奇,否則也可能要了你的命。第三,永遠不要在仇恨和痛苦的時候做決定,否則你以後一定會後悔。”

老闆接著說:“這裡有三個麵包,段個給你路上吃,另一個等你回家後和妻子一起吃吧。”

一天後,他遇到了一個人,那人說:“這條路太遠了,我認識一條捷經,幾天就能到。”他高興極了,正準備走捷經的時候,想起了老闆的第一條忠告,於是他回到了原來的路上。

後來,他得知那人讓他走的所謂的捷經完全是一個圈套。

幾天後,他走累了,發現路邊有家旅館,他打算住一夜,付過房錢之後,他躺下睡了。睡夢中,他被一聲慘叫驚醒。他跳了起來,走到門口,想看看發生了什麼事,剛剛打開門,他想起了第二條忠告,於是回到床上繼續睡覺。

起床後,喝了咖啡,站主問他是否聽到了叫聲,他說聽到了,站主說:“您不好奇嗎?”他回答說不好奇。站主說:“您是第一個活著從這裡出去的客人。我的獨子有瘋病,他昨晚大叫著引客人出來,然後將他們殺死埋了。”

年輕人接著趕路,終於在一天的黃昏時分,他遠遠地望見了自己的小屋,屋子的煙囪微冒著炊煙,還依稀可見妻子的身影。

雖然天色昏暗,但他仍然看清了妻子不是一個人,還有一個男子伏在她的膝頭,她撫摸著他的頭髮。看到這一幕,他的內心充滿了仇恨和痛苦。他想跑過去殺了他們,他深吸一口氣,快步走了過去,這時他想起了第三條忠告,於是停了下來。

天亮後,已恢復冷靜的他對自己說:“我不能殺死我的妻子,我要回到老闆那裏,求他收留我。在這之前,我想告訴我的妻子我始終忠於她。”

他走到家門口敲了敲門,妻子打開門,認出了他,撲到他懷裏,緊緊地抱住了他。他想把妻子推開,但沒有做到。他眼含淚水,對妻子說:“我對你是忠誠的,落你背叛了我…”妻子吃驚地說:“什麼?我從未背叛你,我等了你20年了。”

他說:“那麼昨天下午那個男人是誰?妻子說:“那是我們的兒子。你走時我剛懷孕,今年他已經20歲了。”

丈夫走進家門,擁抱了自己的兒子。在妻子忙著做晚飯的時候,他給兒子講述了自己的經歷。著,一家人坐下來一能吃麵包,他把老闆送的麵包掰開,發現裏面有一筆錢--

那是他20年辛苦勞動賺來的工錢。

人們…
總習慣用自己的角度去看事情,直到…瞭解了真想…
初念淺,轉念深…
我們是否也是和故事中所說的一樣?

喜歡走捷經到達目標?
因好奇而害了自己?
在仇恨和痛苦時,做了一個之後會懊悔的事情或抉擇?

我們更應該知道:
天下沒有白吃的午餐,想要收穫,必要耕耘;
貓通常因好奇而害了自己,人也是如此,少管閑事,多做事;
一失足而成千苦恨,學習遲鈍思維,三思而行。

這只是小弟的小丁點心得,參考之。
以下…

2008年12月20日 星期六

意大利之旅(2)

had a very good sleep on the first night.. since my touchdown in bergamo, we had been visiting some italian friends in 2 towns not far from us.. by the time we returned back to richie's place, it was well past midnight.. we could have reached home earlier, if not for a short jam caused by a traffic accident on the highway..

we went to collect a table set on monday which had just arrived at the warehouse today.. some interesting facts: the table was ready in october, but due to some administrative issues, it could not be shipped here; when it finally arrived in 10th december, it has to stay on the ship for three days; and it came on shore on that monday when i arrived.. was it coincidental or was it fate??

we had tried to reach the warehouse before 1230pm, before they close for lunch, to complete the papers, but failed to due to the traffic and difficulty in finding the place.. it was in another town and we did not have the map, luckily we had lucia on board to help us navigate and ask passer-bys for directions.. so we had lunch in the car at a petrol kiosk which is also closed for lunch.. in italy, most offices and shops are closed between 12pm to 3pm for lunch, i don't know why, perhaps their lunch take a long time to prepare, or they are extremely slow eaters.. haha..

the table set was dismantled into sixteen parts, and luckily we can fit them all into richie's mitsubishi grandis in two trips, so by the time we finished transporting all from the warehouse back to bergamo and carrying up to richie's place, it was already 730pm.. another incident which i think is fated also: the big table top with glass weighed 48kg and did not fit into the small lift in his apartment, italians like small lifts i think, most can only fit four passengers comfortably.. so it wad fated that the table arrived when i was around so i could help him carry it up the 6 storeys..

dinner never tasted so good, especially when you are so hungry after a day's manual work, even when it was just congee.. richie couldn't hide his enthusiasm to see the end product that straight after dinner, we started to assemble the table.. indeed, the assembled table set is very beautiful, simple yet elegant.. the worksmanship is fantastic.. we just sat and admired it for quite some time..

but so tired am i that i turn in early that night..

2008年12月15日 星期一

意大利之旅(一)

took the opportunity of my 3-week term break to take a trip to bergamo, italy... it is a chance for me to experience Tao progagation is another country, and to get to know about italy, their people, their history, and their culture...
借著我公司三個星期的假期,到意大利去走一趟…一來可以到國外學習開荒,二來可以對意大利的人民、歷史、文化有更接近的了解…


the farewell party: changhui, my darling yumei, and jieyou... not forgeting roger who sent me to the airport but had to rush off to fetch his wife... i like to send people off, but don't really like people to send me off... irony, you may think, maybe i don't like to see the complex expressions on their face when they see me walking away into the departure aisle...
送行團:昌慧、玉美、捷佑…還有把我接去機場的道志,但因為他得去接他的娘子,所以先告辭了…本身喜歡送行,但不喜歡別人送我出國…很矛盾吧,你會想,我只是不喜歡在走入出境庭時,看到送我的人臉上那頗副複雜的表情…


after twelve hours and forty minutes, i arrived in amsterdam, holland for the transit plane... even though it was 5:30am when i reached there, some gift shows are already opened for business...
飛了十二鐘又四十分,到達荷蘭的阿姆斯特丹機場轉機…雖是臨晨五點多,已有許多禮品站開門迎業…

wooden clogs, symbol of holland... perhaps i would get a pair for my darling on my way back home... marijuana is another trademark of holland, but too bad they are not on sale there, haha,
but you can get their t-shirts...
木製屐鞋, 荷蘭的象征,也許會買一雙送給玉美…大麻也是荷蘭的另一個象征,但是很“可惜”,他們沒賣,哈哈,但至少你可以買到它們的漢衫…

a miniature of amsterdam airport using lego bricks... i thought lego is from holland, but after checking online, i realised lego is actually from denmark... oh well...
用lego磚塊建成的小型阿姆斯特丹機場…本以為lego是荷蘭的土產,但在岡上“谷歌”後,才發現其實是起原於丹麥的…

actually, i did not had a good sleep on the flight to amsterdam because the seat was not very comfortable.. or maybe it was because of my own body, i constantly felt a dull pain on the right side of my hips, so i was shifting my body all the time.. think i only had four or five hours of good sleep, the rest of the time i was drifting in and out of sleep.. i can imagine those who had to travel constantly for long period of time, it is very uncomfortable at best, and dreadful at worst..
其實,在前往阿姆斯丹途上時,沒有很好的睡覺。可能是座位不是很舒服,也可能是自己體質的因原,腰的右部一直都有點酸痛,所以一直要移動身體…大概只有四、五小時時好睡眠時間,其餘的時間都處於半夢半醒之間…我可以想象那些常常許要長途飛行的空中飛人,好的話可以說是不舒服;不好的話就是很辛苦…

i was able to witness sunrise on the plane to malpensa airport, the sight was so marvellous to behold.. deep blue with a shallow layer of orange as the sun rose, then the rays seeped through the layers of clouds, engulfing the whole sky in pastels of blue and orange and yellow.. no words enough to describe it, just see them for yourself..
在前往馬爾彭薩機場的途中,觀○了日出。那景觀太美妙了,這就是大自然的奧妙…太陽正在還沒破曉時,天空是一片幽藍而帶有一點淺黃色;當它上昇時,一片片陽光衝破雲層,把整個天空彩成又藍又橘又黃,恰似一副油畫…它的美,無以輪比,只得自己去感受…


arrived bergamo around nine am, so the sun is already up, but surrounded by a thin layer of fog, and i was still trying to get used to the cold weather, around six degrees.. richie, huiru, and lucia, an italian girl, came to fetch me, really touched to see someone familiar after a long trip.. some scenes of bergamo on the drive back to richie's place..
大概九點多到達貝爾加莫,太陽雖已昇起,但還是有一層薄霧包圍著。我一時得適應六度左右冰冷氣候…瑞智、惠茹姐和一位意大利小姐,盧基亞,到機場來接我。能在十多個鐘頭後看到熟悉的面孔,真的很感動…以下是回瑞智家的後些照片…






bergamo is an old city with a very long history, and around it resides snow-capped mountains, so it really feels like you are in the switzerland... so did the pictures make you want to come? you are more than welcome!! benvenuti!!
貝爾加莫是一個歷史悠久的古城市,就座落在雪山前,所以感覺就象是在瑞士般…是不是很想親身體驗?歡迎!歡迎!